09----------You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him drink

                   Even when given an opportunity, some people will not use it.

                    In that case the blame is all on him.

10----------You made the bed,  you lie in it

                   You created a certain situation so you are now responsible

                    to take the consequences

11----------The pot calling the kettle black

                    Since the pot and the kettle are equally black from the cooking fire,  the pot has not

                    right to criticize the kettle.  This might be used if someone known to be a gossip criticizes

                    someone else for gossiping.

12---------Don't get mad, get even

                  When someone treats you badly, do not just get angry,

                   express your anger in action

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